I was recently asked how I would feel about surrendering to a situation, versus continuing to beat my head against a metaphorical brick wall. Giving up, instead of continuing a chase of a situation that is unlikely to resolve itself any time soon. In that moment, I was a little scared of what happens if …
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Don’t Go Changin’
It’s time change weekend. Daylight savings comes to an end, and it’s dark by about noon now or something. But I feel good because I got up at 7am this morning, or did I? This is probably one of the things people consistently bitch about in the most in the cycle of a year. I …
No! Not Chandler!
I went to the movies with BFF Amy last night. We went and saw The Killers of the Flower Moon. It was a dark movie, long, but very good. Three hours long, and when we got out, and went our separate ways, I got home and looked at my phone. First thing I see on …
Tough
It’s been a tough week. Not an impossible week, but with a lot going on in the world, it felt very heavy all week. Plus there are all the things that happen when you have to spend your life as an adult. My life usually isn’t traumatic, and it wasn’t truly that bad compared to …
Slow Your PSL Roll
Fall apparently started in the wee hours of the morning today, at like 1:50am. It didn’t automatically become Fall Weather, however, as I am quite sure I had a hot flash around that time so grabbing the closest hoodie was the last thing I was going to do. That is the fun of aging as …
The Deep Water
I can’t say that I have successfully dated anyone, ever. It’s been a struggle of my life. I am ok single, I have learned, and I see how there are many people who can’t be single. They just have to be paired with someone. They have their own things to deal with, and that is …
Labor Day!
I love me a 3 day weekend! It’s joy that I didn’t get for years, without some serious plotting. Now I get them almost every time the rest of the working world does. It’s fantastic! I have a good one ahead of me too, as it is a Family Reunion Weekend. I have been looking …
Summer
I am a big fan of summertime. I don’t always take advantage of all that summer offers, the way I would like to, but that’s because a girl’s gotta eat too, and working is the way to get that done. I believe that day is coming that I won’t be quite so encumbered by working …
Are You There Childhood? It’s Me, Carol…
I took a little walk down Nostalgia Lane last night, and went to see the big screen adaptation of the adolescent girl’s bible, “Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret.” After 50+ years, they made it into a movie. It was truly must read stuff back in my pre-teen days. I think every girl I …
An Absolute Drag
People sure are getting riled up about Drag Queens lately. I myself can’t quite figure it out. It seems that people haven’t had enough exposure to them to appreciate what they are about. I am all about freedom of expression, and that at its base is what Drag is about. They just dress a little …